I read on here men complain about how their wives "let themselves go" after they get married….HA.
In my house — the complete opposite!!! My husband will wear the SAME grubby sweatpants, not shave or shower for days, and is completely apathetic about his appearance.
We have only been married a year — but its starting to really turn me off sometimes…. I have tried to talk to him, but he just gets irrtated at me and rolls his eyes. It gets to the point to where his hair looks terrible. I am not shallow — but 2 months without a haircut for a guy?!– come on. He acts like I am being unreasonable.
but what really pisses me off — is he is the FIRST one to notice any hot chick that walks his way when we are out…..
what would you do — – just do whatever you wanted and stop having any concern for what he thinks at this point? I work out all the time — I look good (not a supermodel, but great for my age) and I try to dress sexy for him a lot. I am thinking —- does he even really appreciate it?
I just find it really annoying in this society that women are taught to dress sexy, be attractive, and down-right competitive with keeping up their appearance…….but if her husband is a slob, she has to put up wtih his habits.
Advice? opinions? experiences?
yet again, many double standards…if I was on here saying that I was a guy and my wife gained 40lbs — it would be "shame shame shame"etc.
I am so NOT shallow. I just don’t get turned on by the smell of body odor.