For me , I find a guy cargo pants and a tshirt a turn off and I don’t think women look very good in sweatpant. I think a man should wear a shirt and tie and a woman should dress like a woman.
oh yes, a guy in shorts, eww. I went out with a guy who wore them on every date. Really bad taste when going out with a woman you just met. I don’t want to look at his hairy legs or anything else on the first date.